I want to work on spending more time together doing things with each other in the hope that we could build a new relationship but with the times that I work and the times that she works how can this be repaired especially as she does not want it to be.
She is content just to let us drift further and further apart until there is nothing
I feel the reason you are stuck is b/c you vacillate between saying what we have told you about needing to separate from her.....and what you have said above.
I would think every LBS has the same desire as you do. Sometimes, we have to accept the fact that what we want and what we need to do are two different roads.
You see separating as ending the M. However, if you would go ahead and just do it.....it might eventually be the start of a new MR. You can see that staying in the same house is not working.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
