Originally Posted By: Cadet

I understand you are in LRT right now however you can answer him if you choose.
I guess the first question I have is what are you trying to accomplish by answering?
Understand that nothing you say is going to turn him around.
He must do that on his own.
You can only control YOU.



Thank you Cadet for the reply. I did reply yesterday before checking for responses on this forum.

I think by answering I wanted to have communication with him, I miss him... I do understand that nothing I say will change his mind and was not trying to accomplish that in my response to him. I am just not sure how to engage him from here? How will anything happen if I just sit in silence? Is that better?


Me:33 H:34
T: 3yrs M: 2yrs
H depression triggered and we are "unhealthy": 7/15
H wants to "make it work" 12/28
BD: 3/10/16