Kat, I am so sorry, I read your post on FB and my heart broke for you and your son and DIL. My prayers and thoughts are with you all.

I hope you don't mind me suggesting some infant loss support groups for them. I have had way too many friends endure infant loss, one friend. just had her second. First baby at 4 months old second stillborn at 2 weeks. I know those support groups and the love of her friends and family is what keeps her going.

Hugs, love and prayers.