I like what rd said about the anger. I too have moments of anger dealing with the aftermath. I think what helps me now is knowing that "this too shall pass"! I have learned to let it go and trust that it will get better. I turn it over to my higher power! Then I just do the best I can!
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"