She said that she is doing some self affirmations.... "I will have more sex" "I will do it twice a week"
Granted, I should be pleased with the fact that she is doing this but wouldn't a better set of affirmations be.... "I love sex" "I love how it feels"
Ok, I'm just going to jump in quick before I have to head home from work. SHE'S TRYING! Let her know that while you appreciate her self aff., could she maybe next time keep them in her head? Learning to feel and like sex takes time. And any step that you can take in that direction is a good one. Be happy that she wasn't compiling a grocery list instead. You've been gone for a few days and kids can take a lot out of you. Maybe in the morning as if you can continue with the touch. If she says something about your D, let her know nicely that a huge part of your D's needs are to have two connected and in love parents. (Well, maybe that just worked for me). May tomorrow be better. . .
