Vanilla, I don't get angry much, either. People tell me that I deal with Mr. P with such "grace" and then they all say they couldn't do it, they'd be too angry. I'm just not.
I have put a lot of effort the past couple of years learning to identify and express my emotions. I got way better at it with Mr. P, I'm digging deep with My Nica and getting a lovely response. But anger just hasn't been a part of that.
I'd love to hear what Zues has to say, but please recognize my dear V, that everyone is different, and in particular I feel like men and women are different when it comes to anger. It's good to explore the reasons you haven't felt anger, but in the end, you are you and you just might not be that way.
