I now understand your post on my thread. The way I process the experiences I have in regards to "slights" against me has changed in the last year. I now observe the anger and let it go. I try to make the best choice and not let ego get in the way.
I get angry but do not indulge it. I use it as an indicator, process the data and modify my behavior. I'm not sure this is to the point you were trying to make.
