Hi NYG, I think your W is doing a lot of cycling, which is common. As you say, it may well have been a temp check and now a little radio silence. Who knows what may be happening or not WRT OW. She is your W's problem and not yours and please try not to worry about your W being in possible contact with her as that isn't something you can control.

I think you have been doing well and the main thing is to manage your own expectations and not get too drawn in by what your W says. Let some more time pass, detach as much as you are able and live your life. You can already see that a little distance from you does no harm at all in these sitches.

Hope you have a lovely Easter weekend xx

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