Sounds like NG is carrying some baggage that needs to be addressed. Ginger, be happy you learned this about him, because this is the kind of stuff you really don't want down the road. And just maybe, Your own Mike Brady is right around the corner. When you're ready for him and he for you.
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
