Pink- I have not broken any boundaries lately. No hugs, no kisses, no hanging out..nothing. I kinda have accepted the whole divorce thing and just trying to embrace it and do that best that I can.
V- He only ignored me for a day, he isn't angry or pushing buttons right now, just contacting me a lot more then he usually does. He calls or texts me asking why I'm ignoring him but that's mostly it. I'm not ignoring him just trying to be no contact.
Todays Update: Went to H's partner and good friend and his wife's house. We had a pool party, I made them and their kids dinner and brought it, it was a good time. I wore a cute suit and looked great.It was just their family and mine.
I was happy, loving, sweet. They said I looked good, looked happy. Gave me a present for losing weight. Gift card to my favorite store.
Didn't tell H my plans- None of his business. He called a few times, left a few vm and texts looking for me but my phone was on silent. He called my mom and my mom told him where I was. He called his partner so I talked to him. He just wants to know if I was mad, ignoring him, okay, stranded, safe etc. He was worried since I was mia for so long with the kids. I was only mia for a few hours lol.
I talked to him for a few, answered a few of his questions he asked and went on with my day. He called again to talk to the kids on his way to work, so I let him talk to them when he was driving to work. I spent 8-9 hours with my friends and then left to come home.
His friend gave him a couple truth darts tonight about calling and checking on me when it was his decision to leave.They are closer then me and H so he can say whatever he wants. Plus H did call his phone to find me so he knows his partner and wife know.
That was my day. I am sunburned now though so..ouchies.
