"I have learned I cannot trust you. If you want a divorce, this is how it works"? I might even drop the part about trust. She is going to come back with a bunch of threats about taking 1/2 of everything....at which point I will wrap up the call by stating I had covered what I needed to talk about, is there anything else you would like to discuss?" If she starts yelling I will lay down a boundary of "I will not allow you to yell @ me or threaten me. If you continue to do this I am going to hang up, and in the future I will not be discussing agreements outside of correct legal process"