Thanks Tim. No I haven't demanded transparency, this is new (less than a week). The last time I tried to talk to her she pushed way back. That was two days ago, so I went dark and detached, working on GAL. It is going well she has contacted me twice today and I have not responded. SO HARD NOT TO! AHHGGGHH but when I do it will be short and not much info. She emailed 4 hours ago, and texted about a half hour ago. In an hour or so I will text back with a simple, oh yeah I did get your email, I have been busy at work catching up. Also going to a work retirement party tonight, will be hard not to drink but I won't.
M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder