Coffee good for you recognizing a potential problem with drinking. You do not want to add to the issues you are dealing with right now. Have you demanded complete transparency? Have you suggested having only one FB account for the both of you? Remember transparency works both ways.

As far as mean things said, I suffered from that as well. I would let our problems build until I would burst. I also said some mean hurtful things, however, words are words and what the WW does is action. BTW I bet if you think back on it she probably has said just as many mean hurtful things. It does not make it right that we said them but shows also that we did not run out and cheat either. So do not beat yourself up about it.

Work on yourself and do not make any decisions out of emotion. I wish you the best of luck!

Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16