Originally Posted By: TimR
Wow that really is terrible. It is amazing that they can cheat and lie and yet are entitled to so much. That is one reason I am glad I have not spent more years with wife. As it stands now she is not really entitled to much.

As easy as this is to say I know it still hurts but remember it is only money and you can always make more money. Like I said its easier to say.


Thanks Tim.
I really don't care about the money as much as the principle of things. Like you said, I can always make it back. I don't spend frivolously anyway, I have been saving it for S11's college education and his future.
But what's terrible is the sense of entitlement my WW has.
I'm going through my broker now to ascertain all my equities that were in there before I got married to get a separate assets valuation.
But doing this is terrible. I think our system is terribly stacked against betrayed husbands. They should never had taken adultery off the books!


Me-LBH, 48
Spouse-WW, 48
Married for 19 years
Son, 12
BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding)
BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA)
WW filed D February 2016
WW moved out April 2016