Hey Sandi, I will try and be less available to her, I will go out with friends and make sure that I put down some boundaries although I am terrible at that and always have been. For example, she was talking to me about tampons on the way to get the car. I was happy that she was talking to me about personal stuff, but kinda uncomfortable because we havent been intimate since May 2015. I really don't know how to put boundaries in place.