In my honest opinion it is her drunk delinquent Father that drives her to do this. Of course there have been problems and I am no angel. I have never been unfaithful but I have said some pretty mean and hurtful things during arguments, usually after I have over undulged drinking alcohol. One of my 180's has been to quit drinking, it would be no good for me right now, I feel like it could slip into a problem if I drink, plus I need to keep a clear head at this time.
M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder