Sandy, She worked at a job with only women and was miserable. She changed jobs and that is when, what I believe to be soon after when she started another. Not a big party gal, she parties but at home mostly. I am racking my brain here. She has always kind of seeks attention (casual) attention from men, yes. I wouldn't say she gets flirty in front of me. She dresses not provocative, conservative but very very nice, always done up, rarely wears jeans. She is a Christian, so her views of open marriages are that of sin. She is opposed.
I will be careful having sex with her, that is shut down for quite some time.
M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder