How does she normally interact with men? Let's say at party, does she get flirty? Does she thrive on the attention of other men? Take their compliments too seriously? Does she dress a little provocative?
How does she look at open marriages and affairs of other couples? Is your W a Christian? Not that it would prevent this behavior, but just wondering if it is a matter of loose morals or if something drives her to seek out other men.
I hope you will be very careful about having sex with her. Know what I mean?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
