Hey,

We had an offer presented and W was telling me after that she wanted the guy to go after she saw the price. She was agitated and angry.

She asked how it went with S7 dentist appointment and I told her he has a cavity in one of his adult teeth. The was more angry and was blaming me for it for not getting the kids to brush there teeth. And then she was mocking me saying OK really slow and saying she is tired of being the bad guy with the kids and that I don't punish them enough.

This was all crap and I just said if your going to talk to me like that I am not talking to you and left the room.

See things were going good then she talks to me disrespectful like that. I could see the resentment. It was like the curtain was pulled back just a little and I could see her true self.

There was no validating that. just rude and uncalled for, attacking my ability to parent.

Just before that after the offer was presented I put the kids to bed. I come down stairs and she was on the phone with her parent about the offer. She had not even discussed it with me yet. And she is talking them that she is not talking the offer. Disrespectful. I mentioned it to her that she had not even talked to me yet and your telling your parents what is going to be done?

She brushes it off saying that it did not matter the offer was so bad.

I was expecting an apology but none.

She texted me about my Lawyer and house stuff, She did mention she is stress at work also and cant wait till a big project is done next week.

I don't know if that is her way of saying sorry?


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016