I have a question. Last Friday my wife was angry that S7 wasn't telling her why he was crying. It doesn't take much to make her very angry and so she started yelling that she doesn't care, f***k the kids, if they don't want to tell me what's wrong then I'm not going to do anything for them! She continued to say that it's not like she's always angry and yelling (which she is) so they should be able to trust her. It went on for 20 minutes and the kids were quiet, not really sure what to do or say. Should I address the fact that no kid deserves to hear f***k them? Or am I just trying to control her?
Children should not be subjected to this type of behavior in a parent. As their father and living under the same roof, the children need you to protect them from their mother's tantrums.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
