Well, I hate to see you settle, but you have to do what is right for you. I hope you will build a life outside of the W and kids.
You are a good man, Jim. You are sacrificing for those kids. I hope you will not become isolated and have nobody but the kids. Meet people and make new friends.
I hope you won't stop posting. ((hugs))
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!