My accommodation isn't great but its cheap and I can save for the next one. I am renting from a friend and its more or less fully furnished so minimal expenses so far.
The kids seem to be coping after the initial shock. W and I converse amicably , mainly about the kids schedule and kids activities.
W has put D on hold and seems happy with the current situation, she is bending over backwards to make it work. I have been nice and cordial with her without being too available. I do minimal contact mainly via text or email except when we exchange children.
Now the important bit: How am I??
I am doing very well. I have told close friends, and got a lot of support . I am galing better than Sotto the GAL Queen!
Last week I was in the States working (and playing hard!) on a new project. Next week I will be in Denmark for a few days, The week after working in Gran Canaria (Holiday Island off African coast!) I am concentrating on the boys, my work, my fitness (a big cycling challenge coming up in May) and my friends....it really keeps me very busy.
The only thing I miss is the daily connection with a significant other, the chance to talk about your day/their day, the relaxation after dinner when kids in bed...am I lonely??...a little...its a hard one to admit, but yes a little.
I'll try to fill in some details later.
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16
