Yeah it's like I reached a point where I have my limitations. I don't NEED her as I thought I did so desperately two years ago. I want her still...but I don't need her. The major difference being from two years ago that I felt I needed HDD to survive. Now I just don't care. Essentially, if she isn't contacting me ala Adele, repentant for the things she's done; like tossing our marriage away and wanting to talk possibly working things out...then contact at all is pointless. It's almost ridiculous to me that I even have anything to update this thread with nearly two years later because I certainly have done NOTHING to keep her lingering...she certainly has found a way to linger though...saying I'm on her mind and she thinks of me often blah blah blah. Action not words WAW because you don't have me by the _____s anymore. There's no connection... no ties... no kids...and therefore no reason for the intense involvement in my life. It's R talk or you don't exist to me. It's that simple.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
