Daybyday, I am very confused for the same reason you are. I'm supposed to move out on the 9th (and I feel very bitter that H gets to keep the home I created, even if it needs maintenance and is old) and H is being soooo nice. Loving, affectionate and touchy. Hardly any anger. I think he's cake- eating to a degree, but it makes it almost impossible when he now behaves the way I've been dreaming about for years!
He says it's because the pressure is off - he has loving feelings for me and is just showing them. But he still wants 'space to see how he feels'. I suspect he wants space to move somebody else in...
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17
