For me I realize that I'm an all or nothing person. If I can't have a partner I can count on then I'm not interested. XW proved I can't count on her. Why would I be interested again? If she becomes a different person and approached me citing lessons she learned, etc, hey, I guess I'd review the situation based on where we were at at the time, I'm not here to slam doors shut, but I am not interested in going through this crap ever again so it would take some convincing for me to consider R.


Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15