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Painter, it actually makes sense. Based on his actions it still sounds like he is in his crisis and looking for reasons to try and justify what he has done/is doing.i am sure guilt has to be surfacing. I didn't even mention the fact that he saved zero of his paychecks over that 6 months and spent it all, whereas I did what I thought and was careful about spending. I honestly have done everything by the books. Yet, he is projecting stuff on to me??

My guess is (mind-reading) that my STBX has yet to really started processing any of this in a logical and healthy way, especially if he is still in A. I have no idea if that is still going on. You can only run from yourself and your issues before life catches up with you. Wherever you go, there you are. He will be disappointed when we are as and his issues are still there.

I decided not to change locks as that seemed like a hostile move and he is still owner of property. Since I had lawyer, I knew if he took any of great value, I could have it dealt with. We still have to get together to divide up household stuff, which he is eluding he is going to be difficult about as well. I am just brushing it off. It is just stuff that can be replaced. I have what I wanted with house and finances. I really am detached...maybe 90-95%. I honestly don't think I would entertain reconciliation, though I don't expect that to ever happen anyway.

Update---H signed settlement agreement today. I just have to sign and it is done. Decree should be issued by end of next week.