WAW w/OM, its time to DB!

[kirklan]

Hi
I came across this site and it changed my outlook.
Thank you DB!
Phone Conf Booked
Bought DB book

Facts:
H:41
W:38
K: S:6 S:10 S:12
T: 16 yrs
M: 10 yrs
BD: March 5 2016
A with OM:1.5 mths
W ->WAW

How i found out
was told to take the kids overnight to a hotel for march brk sat. i agreed, since i had to work over the brk.
noticed my CC wouldn't work. Banking app is on her phone.
asked to use her phone to see if anyone was trying to do illegal purchases. W kept stalling say to just call them. finally she gave me the phone. but said she had to go to the bathroom first.
then she sat beside me and nervously opened her phone and gave it to me. i thought to my self, something is up. lunch was in the oven and the timer was going off. i told her to take it out.
she lept up and ran to the oven and took it out. during that time i opened her txt msg and saw a phone number i did not recognize. i quickly closed it and gave it back to her. then she started yelling at me to get going to the hotel. then she ran back to the bathroom and i followed her in and asked her if shes hiding something. "NO!" she said. "Get going!"
Driving to the hotel i had that gut feeling. later that night i googled "signs W cheating" , each box was checked. then i logged in to the cell phone account online and low and behold. txt msgs from the same # from 7am - 3am for the whole month - approx 1200 msgs in one month.
then i checked her FB friends list, low and behind OM's cell # in his profile. exact same #. Name, Work, and mutual friends with WAW's friends.
She texted me checking in on the Kids, angry as hell i ignored it.

BD
Next day, checked out went back home. i went to take a nap. she comes storming up and immediately says "ITS OVER!"
I asked her if shes cheating on me, she knew i busted her. she admitted to it. i asked her how long: 1mth, did you FK him?"No", did you kiss him, no answer. rage set in, said some real bad stuff. then cried and pleaded to take me back. then she said ILYBNILWY when i asked WAW do you LM?? I took off out of the house after my panic attack.
Came back 4 hrs later to the house. K all sleeping. i txted her if i can come in , WAW say" for what your clothes"