Things seem to be slightly changing.H notices I'm more distant,detached, less available( He tells me I'm more distant,ignoring him,etc every time We talk). Calls more,texts more, asking about spending holidays together like easter. He would really like me there.
I changed the way I'm acting around him and it seems to bring out a small change. I'm not easy,breezy, or validating. I'm detached, a bit sassy-sarcastic( not a lot but a little) and keeping up my boundaries hardcore.
He brought me my favorite meal from a place in town when he was running late to come see the kids to make me happy.
Still with OW, still going to go stay an hour away from us, but I'm feeling more confident in myself.
He knows about my job..didn't mention filling when her said as soon as He knew He would do it.
