It amazes me also DBD, she was one that said she wanted to speak to the kids every night before bed once we were separated. I hear nothing. My kids have been more sick the past few months than they had been in ages. Even just on Monday, my D3 threw up just as I got her to daycare. I doubt my W even sees the stress they are under.
I have also been very careful with both my kids for the past 4 months. Like you said, still have disipline, but I spend time to talk through things with them.
