On a more positive note, am making plans to take my kids to Bahrain to visit Grandpa. Sent W an email telling her when I was going to take them and only got a response about a daycare thing for my D on Thursday. When I mentioned taking them in person, she seemed to be taken back. At times, I don't think she expected me to make life move on without her.
Also had S at the dentist today, got nothing from W asking how it went. I know I don't recognise my W anymore, but I don't even recognise the mother she used to be either. The kids were with her for just over a week and have not mentioned one thing they did with her. I'm not asking them as I don't want to be pumping them for information.