Working with L through the settlement agreement. The state computer formula comes up with WW getting 43% of net spendable income every month and I get 57%. This is with 50/50 custody for my S11.
How the heck is this fair? I make 95% of the income. I'm the betrayed husband, I didn't cheat on anybody. She's going to rent an apartment that I have to upkeep.
WW also wants >me< to pay $10K for her L's stupid ex parte filings and frivolous antics. My L said, no thanks! If anything it has to come out of community property which is only 50% from me.
This really [censored]. At least my L is doing a good job now, hitting them on every point.


Me-LBH, 48
Spouse-WW, 48
Married for 19 years
Son, 12
BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding)
BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA)
WW filed D February 2016
WW moved out April 2016