Thanks Z, I would say that I had a life, based on your examples. So I guess the point is to continue my life? Maybe switch it up a bit or something. In the immediate time I need to Get my Life back...instead of following her around like a puppy. I also will be less of a doormat like I have these past 8 or 10 months. The other thing I need to do is stop concerning myself with what she has going on, at this point who cares. Just as long as the needs of my son are taken care of. Today I consider moving to the extra bedroom.
M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder
