I'm glad you are in such a good place and had a lovely vacation with your family.
And I'm sorry he is accusing you and being angry and playing games - isn't that odd? It sounds like you are much more detached than he is, actually. I hope things calm down and you don't get any surprises. How come he still has access to the house?
Keep us posted!
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17