Hi Gwen, I'm sorry to read about the whole rings thing. To me it sounds like a teenagery infatuation type move. We can't marry as such - but we'll both wear rings. Who knows how they deal with the inevitable Qs about their status. But all of that is their problem of course.
It sounds as though you are doing pretty well in all circumstances & pleased to read about your job and your trip. I always like to hear from you Gwendoline as my H pretty much vanished too - tho he mostly responds to my very occasional messages. Time will tell how things will unfold for all of us - but I'm always a little sad when something else gets added onto the big pile of things to forgive.
Take care my friend xx
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