No. I cheated 8 and a half years ago, when we first started going out and lived in different states. I was with someone when my W came back into my life, I then slept with some one 3 months after we started dating. I haven't slept with anyone since then. I used porn to satiate my desires when the W didn't want to be with me. I didn't come clean about the cheating until 6 months ago. I felt awful about having done it and hoped that she never had to find out, but you can't hide from the truth. The problem is that she thinks I have been cheating on her recently and that is not true. I have made many mistakes since moving up here, but cheating isn'the one of them.