Yep, it's one of them days. I'm thinking about things more than ever today. It was probably the snooping...shouldn't do that again. So yesterday my D11 says that she has heard some friends talking about their parents getting divorced and she is so happy that she doesn't have to deal with that. She said she already dealt with it once when she was 2yo and she was too young to know what's going on, but now she's old enough to know. This [censored] sux. I know I need to detach, heck it's been 9 months, but I'm afraid to. All that big talk boils down to that.