Thank you Sandi, I like you analogy. I just wander if I can be with a person who I know has this inside them? If that is even an option, who knows??? But something tells me if I do and there is reconciliation, why do I feel I will be the one with the greatest scars from this process?


Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16