tfish08 - I've heard the same hateful speech so many times I've lost count. He runs hot and cold. At times, he's calm and easy to get along with and at others, the venom starts pouring out. It's like something comes up that we're unaware of, they get angry at whoever or whatever, and guess who gets the brunt of all that. I try to just sit and listen but it takes a lot to just STFU and I've failed many times. (I am getting better at it though.)
I try to remember that whatever caused him to erupt most likely doesn't have a thing to do with me. I'm just the easiest to blame and within firing distance. Remembering that in the heat of the moment isn't easy. You did great!
Me: 59 and holding H: :53 Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown M: 19 T: 23 BD: 9-23-2013