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Thanks for the posts and all of the advice. I fear I have made some mistakes as this has unfolded. I think I can read through all of this information and will begin to do some of this stuff right away.
She has admitted to the A...without disclosing anything.
Today, before reading this again I have decided to go dark, I will read the information on that and begin to practice it. I have a therapy appointment today for myself so I think that will help a bit.
The hardest thing is she just wants to act like no big deal and not discuss this stuff, I guess that is why I need to GAL and go dark first and foremost.