If you plan to be present while she moves out, I don't know how you will oversee what is carried out of the house. I mean, you don't have to stand over her as she packs each box, but being in the same room could prevent her from sneaking something out that she pretty much knows you'd want to keep. Especially, sentimental items.
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I feel like the closer I get to my wife moving out April 1st, the meaner and colder she's getting. It's like she's trying to pick an argument with me. I truly can't believe the woman my wife has become. It's unbelievable. I feel like I should just stay locked in the spare room until she leaves.
I doubt this is all just your imagination. There are at least two reasons a woman acts this way. 1) to discourage you from trying to change her mind; 2) to keep her own negative feelings charged enough to get through the move.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
