The psychic stuff explains why she was so sure that I had an A. It also explains why she would tell me that she would forgive me if I just told her the truth. Except that when I did she didn't believe me. I think she was so hurt that she had to detach from me or she was going to go crazy and then became rebellious and bitter after thinking that I had been unfaithful. She talked to me about the R last week and said that she had thought about what I said re: getting MC and she said that she has a lot of healing to do before she can even consider it. I just stayed shut and validated. She continually says that this happened to her because she was too nice, too trusting and so sheasy refuses to be nice anymore. She has built this wall to protect herself, from me and I don't know how to tear it down.
