if she is saying things that can be validated then fine, but if she is just throwing trash your direction dont validate that just walk away or let it be known that it must be hard dealing with everything she has going on, but you will not be spoke to in that way by anyone.

Validating is not accepting whatever they say and dont say you understand just listen and show empathy.

My opinion just kind of let her be.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15