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LISTEN TO SANDI2. She knows her stuff. Sounds like Calibri is also a great resource based on her experience. You are new to this, and so am I. My WW takes meds which I also want to blame. I was actually reading side effects today, but if she likes them and I am sure she like them, it doesn't matter and you cannot convince her otherwise. As Cali said, it doesn't matter why your here just focus on how to fix this. PATIENCE is huge now. It really doesn't matter why you are here, but you are, so am I. it [censored] big time. My WW said the same thing about cheating and disgust etc, but she did. Just like so many others that are here. Don't focus on the past or why you are here today besides understanding your faults and contributions. not easy. Step back and do less, i have a 72 hr rule. If i want to do something today, I DONT. I wait 72 hrs and rarely end up doing what I thought i wanted. I am not a vet, but there are a lot here. Listen to them and take their advice. It works, for your sanity and for your M.