Originally Posted By: Vanilla
I would like to lay down a challenge

As always no V is ok.

I would like 100 positive statements about your sitch and you

V


This is a good challenge. Will do some each day.

1. I am reaching out with old friends and developing new friendships.
2. I am becoming wiser.
3. I am more accepting of others.
4. I listen more.
5. I have treated myself more then ever before (new clothes, makeup, hair)
6. I am taking things day by day instead of worrying and planning for future.
7. I am more empathetic to others.
8. I will make a wonderful partner to my husband or to someone new because I have learned so much about how to accept and appreciate people for who they are,
9. I am a better mom because I have learned to validate and because I have had to make up for father not being around.
10. I am more independent.
11. I have learned to not say hurtful things when I am hurting.
12. Husband and I are not engaging in vengeful, intentionally hurtful acts against one another.
13. I have no proof of affair, which means husband is not flaunting one or cruelly throwing it in my face or perhaps not having one.
14. I have held it together through a very challenging time. I am mentally strong. I have not missed a day of work because of this, I have been there for kids, I have met my responsibilities. I have not engaged in any vices like drugs or alcohol. I have not needed to go on medications.
15. I have a wonderful family that has been there for me.
16. I can only go up from here.
17. I am healthy, family is healthy.
18. I have a great job i look forward to going to.
19. I help a lot of people at my job. I make a difference in their lives.
20. I am well liked at work.
21. I am not in conflict with anyone other than husband.
22. People tell me that men are attracted to me. When I go out, it seems like some of them are.
23. I am capable of learning from my mistakes.
24. I am receptive to others points of views.
25. I would not be this new person if husband did not leave me.
26. I have children majority of time.
27. I have every other weekend to myself. More of break then ever before.
28. I have a new life ahead of me.
29. I am having more fun.
30.*******i have wonderful son*********

Need to think of more.


M: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
WAH in summer