I would like 100 positive statements about your sitch and you
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This is a good challenge. Will do some each day.
1. I am reaching out with old friends and developing new friendships. 2. I am becoming wiser. 3. I am more accepting of others. 4. I listen more. 5. I have treated myself more then ever before (new clothes, makeup, hair) 6. I am taking things day by day instead of worrying and planning for future. 7. I am more empathetic to others. 8. I will make a wonderful partner to my husband or to someone new because I have learned so much about how to accept and appreciate people for who they are, 9. I am a better mom because I have learned to validate and because I have had to make up for father not being around. 10. I am more independent. 11. I have learned to not say hurtful things when I am hurting. 12. Husband and I are not engaging in vengeful, intentionally hurtful acts against one another. 13. I have no proof of affair, which means husband is not flaunting one or cruelly throwing it in my face or perhaps not having one. 14. I have held it together through a very challenging time. I am mentally strong. I have not missed a day of work because of this, I have been there for kids, I have met my responsibilities. I have not engaged in any vices like drugs or alcohol. I have not needed to go on medications. 15. I have a wonderful family that has been there for me. 16. I can only go up from here. 17. I am healthy, family is healthy. 18. I have a great job i look forward to going to. 19. I help a lot of people at my job. I make a difference in their lives. 20. I am well liked at work. 21. I am not in conflict with anyone other than husband. 22. People tell me that men are attracted to me. When I go out, it seems like some of them are. 23. I am capable of learning from my mistakes. 24. I am receptive to others points of views. 25. I would not be this new person if husband did not leave me. 26. I have children majority of time. 27. I have every other weekend to myself. More of break then ever before. 28. I have a new life ahead of me. 29. I am having more fun. 30.*******i have wonderful son*********