NYGal, I'm with Thornton on this one. An hour on the phone? Really? I don't see any DBing in that at all.
I can't be too rough - I'd have killed for that opportunity a few weeks ago. Now I'm not so sure.
She's saying all the right things, which is also a bit of a worry.
But Thornton already gave you the warning - that's enough.
Fingers crossed, but do try to go slow. You've also got to decide just what does happen if there's a chance to move forward with your R. Because you're reviving your old relationship, which didn't work. You have to have an entirely new one, with 2 new people. Which one are you?
Me: 58 Her: 59 Kids: 0 Dog: 1 ILYBINILWY: 9/15 D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed) Verified OM: 1/11/16 Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)