NYGal, I'm with Thornton on this one. An hour on the phone? Really? I don't see any DBing in that at all.

I can't be too rough - I'd have killed for that opportunity a few weeks ago. Now I'm not so sure.

She's saying all the right things, which is also a bit of a worry.

But Thornton already gave you the warning - that's enough.

Fingers crossed, but do try to go slow. You've also got to decide just what does happen if there's a chance to move forward with your R. Because you're reviving your old relationship, which didn't work. You have to have an entirely new one, with 2 new people. Which one are you?


Me: 58
Her: 59
Kids: 0
Dog: 1
ILYBINILWY: 9/15
D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed)
Verified OM: 1/11/16
Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)