If you are copied on an email she will see you on the list.

Regardless it is her choice and her life.Nothing to do with you.

Sure maybe it'll be a good job and if ye do get back together you'll appreciate the work, even if you don't believe she needs it!

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together