Back on these forums again 7

[Mona52]

Well,I just got into a fight with my H.

I will claim a certain amount of fault for it, but not 100%.

My H, out of the blue offered to help me move our stuff out of the house. I am sorry, but this is SO far out of character for him that I started to wonder what he was really up to.

It occurred to me that he wanted the house cleared to help my sis.

SO...

I texted him and thanked him for the help, but told him that if he was helping me for my sis, I would prosecute to the fullest extent of the law.

Well, golly gee, guess what happened. Me saying I dont trust him hurt his feelings...

Now he is all upset because I hurt his feelings. He said when I was ready to trust him, he would be my friend again.

I told him I will not blindly trust him and I was sorry he could not understand how I feel.

I also told him i was not surprised he could not understand how I feel and when he was ready to accept me, as I am, and accept the fact that I do not trust then he could think of a friendship with me, but I was not even going to try and change for him. I am who I am.

It is always amazing how the people who beat you up are always shocked and hurt when you finally protect yourself from it.