Moving Ahead in UK - pt17 - been here so long!

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Talking of logical decisions, I have found out (due to an email error) that my W is going for a consultation for a boob job and abdominal surgery!

I was aware that my W was unhappy with her body after the birth of our last child, but I was always very supportive of her and always told her how much I fancied her/loved her. I suppose this is how it started with her having her teeth whitened, 18 months ago.

So, W's mid life crisis takes yet another turn and I'm not sure what to do. I don't want my W to go under the knife for a cosmetic procedure, but I can't let on that the email was copied to me in error, otherwise she'll think I've been snooping. I suppose I just keep quiet, but this does give me a fair amount of sadness as if this really is the root cause of all this (a MLC due to her perceived body issues) is there anything I can do?