Yeah I hear you hope. I feel the same thing. I can't work on R alone without any investment from WW. I do not see any investment from WW, so the best I can do is to take another step forward.

I also have this thought running through my mind today. They say the anger and resentment took years to build until it got to where we are and of course it does not go away overnight. My question is what builds in us during the time we are DBing. Some of us continue to get more angry, some depressed, some, anxiety, and so on. I get that GALing and other methods are truly concerning with alleviating this but really what builds inside of us during this time? I do not think it is our love for our WAS or WS.


Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16