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GWH #2663436 03/17/16 12:30 PM
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Tim I agree with 13. I wouldn't share pics with W but rather let S share if he chooses. It does seem a little pursuing.

It's so very hard not temp check the WAS just to ease our mind but let her find out about trip from your S. JMHO


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Shopping for jeans in NY used to be one of my sports.

Ground zero.

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Lol, thanks V but I probably wont get much shopping in.... Or will I??


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TimR #2663676 03/18/16 12:56 PM
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You will...

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Try to get to the 59th St. Apple store if you can. S would love all the big glass cube, the technology and such. Hope you're having fun! I'm in NYC so let me know if you need any pointers :-)


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Hello everyone, hope you all had a great weekend. I will hopefully catch up on the threads tonight.

My weekend was great! I cannot say did great at DBing though. On the way to NYC WW text me saying how she teared up dropping S off. I responded that I would take good care of him, to which she said "I know."

Well I know I should not have but S's phone kept dying (he is terrible at keeping it charged) so I was doing all the picture taking. Since she was worried I did send the pics I took of him. Only him, not the ones I took of him and I. But there were quite a few. I also sent some the second day. And like I promised, I did keep her up to date on the trip back letting her know what time we would be there. When I dropped him off, she seemed weird. I gave him a hug and excused myself quickly.

So my weekend dilemma is this.... On Thursday a woman (who I know) saw me jogging text me and asked if I wanted a partner to jog with. That's it nothing romantic than that. But she just started texting. I don't know why though (I was talking about this to a friend) but I still feel like I am doing something wrong like cheating. May I stress again this is not something romantic we just jog the same route and know each other (we went to school together and I coach her son).


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TimR #2663997 03/20/16 08:38 PM
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I don't see anything wrong with a jogging partner. It helps maintain the motivation.


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TimR #2664091 03/21/16 08:20 AM
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Tim, there is nothing wrong with jogging with someone. Your good brother keep it up.

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Tim! Glad you had a great trip. Sorry you didn't anticipate the phone thing. I would have stopped at my NY Mecca (B&H Photo or Adorama) and picked up one of those little tiny USB chargers. Always good to keep one around. Maybe get the S one for his B-Day or some other excuse.

Anyway, you had an excuse for sending the pics, so it should be fine.

As far as your new jogging partner (or partner to be), does she know you're in your current sitch? If not, I then there is absolutely nothing to worry about.

And if she does know - does it make a difference to you? I cannot think of a better thing for your W to see to tell you the truth. That will be a major reality IV that! You can't buy that sort of stuff. It's only romantic if you make it so. If she's single that is. I don's see anybody here doing to their WW's what their WW's have done to them!

Enjoy it, have fun, relax. It's called GAL. And a serious first step at that.


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Actually I don't agree on the jogging partner issue.

It could be any soft approach.

Really?

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